Ways to keep romance alive in a relationship
It conjures up all kinds of thoughts for both men
and women: candlelight, soft music, longing
looks. Well, as much as you desire to have
sizzling romance in your relationship, you must
realise that a relationship is not a romance
movie.
Unfortunately, reality often wade in, disrupting our
special moments and erasing every trace of
romantic ideas we might have. Every relationship
needs romance to stay alive.
Most couples have little issues with finding
romantic ideas to share with their partner early on
at the beginning of the relationship, but after the
new relationship energy has worn off, it may take
a bit of time and creativity to get the romance
flowing again.
odd look can throw a couple into a long feud for
weeks, small and seemingly insignificant gestures
can help keep a relationship on track.
A little gift, an off-hand compliment, a moment of
physical contact can vastly strengthen a
relationship.
You find out that these little hand touches, pecks
given every now and then and lovely text
messages of how much he/she means to you
heightens the romance in that relationship.
In romantic relationships, as with so much else,
it’s the little things that count. Also creativity is
very important in keeping up with romantic
relationship. Are you and your partner just going
through a loveless relationship and it looks as if
the romance has flown out of the window?
If you’re stuck in a relationship rut, incorporating
something simple and new to your routine might
be the answer. Introduce a new sex position that
interests you, browse online together and laugh
over these things.
You will be surprised how such a mundane thing
as reading about sex together can help rekindle
yours. Creating magical moments in your
relationship is something everyone thinks about,
but few people do.
Perhaps it’s because they actually can’t think of
exactly what to do. If you’re in a happy
partnership, married or not, you can keep it that
way or make it even better by introducing a few
new behaviours and small changes into the
relationship.
The glue that will make all these things to work in
your relationship is communication. Instead of
being bored in the bedroom, tell him what turns
you on. If you want to be satisfied when it comes
to sex, you can’t be shy.
Let him know what you like and don’t like and
encourage him to do the same. Here are ‘acts of
love’ you can do with and for your partner to
bring a little more romance into your relationship.
It’s time to try rekindling the spark between you
and your sweetheart with one of these random
acts of romance.
• Spend a Sunday afternoon watching your
favourite romantic flicks together.
Or you can go for an early romantic dinner and
come home to spend the rest of the evening
wrapped up in each other’s arms.
• Tease your partner. Walk around the house in
just a towel or stroke their back as you walk by
them.
Do small acts to tease and tantalize your partner.
Build their anticipation and desire for your touch.
Also, full body massages are great ways to build
the tension and feel intimate and connected.
• Sex is critically an important aspect of a happy
and long-lasting relationship. Find ways to have
romantic and meaningful sexual encounters.
Purchase romantic books like the ‘Kama Sutra’ to
learn new ways to pleasure your partner.
• Spruce up your bedroom.
Treat yourselves to a sumptuous new bedspread
and a set of luxurious high-thread-count sheets.
• Greet and leave each other with a kiss. Lock lips
whenever you say hello or goodbye. A quick peck
on the cheek should be reserved for friends and
relatives.
• Pamper each other every opportunity you get.
Let your partner know he or she is your most
precious possession
• Find ways to say ‘I love you’ to one another on
daily basis. Leave an ‘I love you’ note in his suit
jacket while the man can tuck it into her makeup
bag or purse where she could easily see it.
• For the lady, make every day routine extra
special like: Cooking his favourite dinner, show
interest in his work and choose a sexy nightgown
just for him.
For the man, buy her a gift and make her go
craze in bed for you with prolonged foreplay.